"What happens when the therapist a client wants isn't the therapist they need? A reflection on attachment, familiarity, and therapeutic growth."
“Am I going to get better?”
I sat at the end of an initial session recently. The person seated across from me had a complex and chronic history of mental health diagnoses, not the least BPD and substance abuse. Following a lengthy intake, I asked if they had any questions of me before we finish for the day. They looked at me straight in the eye, paused, and asked, "Am I going to get better?".